Who through faith... enforced
justice, obtained promises, stopped the mouth of lions, quenched the
power of fire, escaped the edge of the sword, were made strong out of
weakness, became mighty in war, put foreign armies to flight. Hebrews
11:33-34
The
above passage is describing mighty heroes of the faith from the Old
Testament. Yet to me it could just as well describe the women of
southern Africa. Over the past few weeks I've been richly blessed to
be allowed to do in-depth interviews with 35 South African women from
various communities. The trust they gave me in sharing their most
painful memories, hard stories, and ultimate victories in Jesus is
something I cherish. I love each and every one of them deeply; we
have all grown together over these past few years as we've studied
God's Word together in depth. However, these hours and hours of
interviews were also one of the most difficult times I've ever faced.
As a professional social worker and counselor for many years, I have
heard many stories of hard lives. But what these women, and the 65+
women I interviewed in Swaziland in past years, have faced in their
lives boggles my mind. Almost all have faced racial oppression,
physical/verbal/sexual abuse, hunger and poverty, untimely death of
at least one loved one (and usually more) due to violence or disease,
sexual discrimination, poor medical care, lack of education though
desperately wanting it, single motherhood, political violence, and
hard physical labor for inhumanely little pay or as virtual slaves.
By the end of each day I was ready to quit, feeling I couldn't face
another day of interviews. Story after brutal story was almost more
than I could bear. I kept going only through God's grace, my
husband's tender loving care, and the encouragement from the women
themselves, who said they really wanted their stories to be told, and
not forgotten. Most of all, I pressed on because of admiration for
these African sisters of mine. In spite of multiple blows throughout
their lives, they pick up the pieces, and endure. They are strong and work hard.
They have forgiven. They serve others. They have joy, and praise the
Lord with a passion. Their hope is in Jesus. They are MY heroes.